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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not being snark but curious: is it the sex that you miss?  You must still sleep with your wife. What is lacking that you miss this woman so much?[/quote]

Absolutely I miss the physical connection. But it's everything. We had taken very similar paths in life, but were from different backgrounds. I loved learning about her culture, and her large family. She was super smart, and had this razor sharp sense of humor. It was this crazy chemistry. I loved who she was, and how she made me feel, how it felt to have her in my life.

Sex with my wife is as infrequent and mechanical as ever, and it is what it is. I've had only one AP, because (shocking, I know) it's not just about the sex for me.[/quote]

If she so amazing why aren't you with her?  either she isn't as into you (which is likely) or you are a total flake who wants his cake (wife) and to eat it to. Let this go.  you sounds pathetic. [/quote]

Also, an affair is all the good parts of a relationship and none of the bad. No household chores, no bills, no in-laws... How have you not realized that!? [/quote]

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