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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not being snark but curious: is it the sex that you miss?  You must still sleep with your wife. What is lacking that you miss this woman so much?[/quote]

Absolutely I miss the physical connection. But it's everything. We had taken very similar paths in life, but were from different backgrounds. I loved learning about her culture, and her large family. She was super smart, and had this razor sharp sense of humor. It was this crazy chemistry. I loved who she was, and how she made me feel, how it felt to have her in my life.

Sex with my wife is as infrequent and mechanical as ever, and it is what it is. I've had only one AP, because (shocking, I know) it's not just about the sex for me.[/quote]

Sorry OP, but she's not a smart cookie. A well balanced smart woman does not sleep with a married man. 
Face it, you didn't know her and have been wasting years fantasizing over what doesn't exist. If you paid bills
with her living day to day it would be another set of problems. Back to point A.[/quote]

Yep, I think you have idealized her in your head. Forget her and focus your energies on bringing back the spark with your wife.[/quote]

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