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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DW would echo OP's sentiments.  Perhaps she is OP.

What is super frustrating for me is how often I turn down other women who proposition me during business travel.  Yes, it really happens, a lot.  Then, I come home to someone who can't fathom sex with me.

Marriage is wonderful for lots of things, sex is not among them.[/quote]

So what, I get hit on all the time. I don't think it means much except there are lots of awful people in the world, since I am obviously married.

She can't have 1 day to get some rest, you need to hump her at the door.  :roll:

All of a sudden it means she can't "fathom sex with me".. me thinks your tampon is leaking. [/quote]

Aren't you a treat. I feel sorry for the poor bastard that got saddled with you. No one mentioned humping at the door. The fact that he misses his wife and desires her when he returns [b]should make the wife feel good[/b]. There are many women on this very board that are longing for that reaction from their H. She acts as if the business trip is a vacation. [b]If you've ever been onna business trip, it can wear your ass out.[/b] I always look forward to my own bed when I get home

OP's DH will get frustrated or bored from OP's [b]lack of interest[/b]/rejection. Initially, it will result in anger and arguments. There will be resentment. Finally, he will have a bad trip, walk innthe door and just think screw it, I'm too tired. Then he will lose interest in OP and find his pep in his step in leaving. 3 years from now, OP will be starting a thread about how [b]she thinks he's cheating on her[/b] or about him filing for divorce and her being blindsided. The harpies will all have her back again. In the deepest recesses of her mind, she will remember this thread and remember this prediction and know that Yes! She could have fixed this.[/quote]

1. She should feel good for being a good parent, not because she is desired. That's a dime a dozen, we are always desired.

2. Yes. It wears my ass out, drinking a lot does that, and plane rides oh the many 1st world problem I must deal with when I travel. The truth is he was getting all horned up at the bar with other women and needs a release.

3. "lack of interest" ... how does I need a nap = lack of interest. The lack of balls on this board is astounding. Grow up .... take care of your kids for a few hours and be a partner.

4. or she is starting a thread that says, my H does not appreciate me and I am banging the neighbor... after she takes a nap. Women cheat more between 28-35, she is in her prime.

5. He could fix this with a simple nap... not counseling, not jewelry, not an expensive house.... a nap... a f'ing nap! ... and actually caring for his own children. [/quote]

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