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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Umm, probably not that. Women (even attractive women) have to deal with more attractive women all the time. It's part of life.

If anything, the neighbor might want to have get togethers at their house w/o feeling obligated to invite the new neighbors over. So they are being standoffish."

It is part of life, but some women have embarrassingly low or non existent coping mechanisms, such that they try to drag other women into it, classic scapegoating.  It has not happened to me (I am not hot, trust me, I have no such problems), but I know it happens.

It happens at work, with a good looking colleague I have, and it happens every day IRL.  Just because you don't experience it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.  Some women can be terribly insecure...and that is where their crazy comes from.  
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o.k.  But the neighbor is the one who is being social and nice to everyone but Op.  Op, are you breathtakingly beautiful?  Are all the other friendly neighbors ugly in comparison to you?

I am going to guess - no.  Op, are you talking about this neighbor to your other neighbors?  It seems that she is coming up a lot in your conversations with other people.

And it seems as if you are a  little bit too worried about her opinion of you.  I think you would be better off forgetting about her.  Maybe your mind is making this out to be a lot more than it is?[/quote]

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