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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some men are great catches but really shy.  My brother in law is too shy to pursue, but if pursued, he will be an amazing catch.[/quote]

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My DH is a great catch! But back when we met, he was 23 and super shy and awkward around girls! I new he was a catch instantly and shamelessly flirted with him until he asked me out. I know that had I not gone out of my way to initiate flirting with him, he would never have known that I was even a romantic possibility for him as he'd have thought I way out of his league to pursue. Once I flirted with him, he prompt;y flirted back and asked me out. The rest is history.

I do not understand this passive strategy of women sitting around waiting for men to come up to them. You can't sit in your tower and wait for Prince Charming to climb up and find you. It is the modern world. Climb out of your tower, mingle with men and be flirty!!

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But YOU didn't ask, even though you could have. And I do think most women who succeed do it by being open and receptive, but letting the man do the asking.[/quote]

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