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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As PPs have noted, the way women pursue is different from me. You need to smile, show interest, laugh at his jokes, dress nicely/makeup etc, listen to him.

If he still doesnt ask you out, casually suggest meeting up once for a coffee or something non dating like.

If he still doesnt bite, give up. Further pursuing will only lead to a horrible marriage where you are always doing the running. [/quote]

I'm the PP that pursied my DH.

When I say pursue I do not mean "I chased him down, called him and asked him for dates until he gave in." I mean that I noticed him, made a beeline for him, actively flirted and joked around and flirted with him. He noticed that I was being flirty and flirted back. Then he properly asked me out dinner and a movie and all that jazz.

I have heard from many many men, especially younger more inexperienced ones that it is often very hard and embarrassing to walk up to random girls and talk. They NEED signals and since they are men, they need OBVIOUS signals.

The douchey guys who chase you regardless of whether you show interest arent the keepers! The good guys will be a little shy and hesitant and NEED encouragement and reinforcement.

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