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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.

I see "we" as tacky. There was never a "them" to begin with. She's trying to force some semblance of amicability but it's far from the reality.

She quit her job once the child support was established. Both her kids are in school FT and they have split custody. He pays child support and has an ad-hoc schedule for visits due to his work.. She is trying to convince him to quit his job so that he can be around the child more often (he travels extensively for work and spends time between three states.)

What he's doing already isn't enough for her. I think it's a little ridiculous he's paying her an excess of $4200/month plus pays for her health insurance and visiting when he can for an arrangement he didn't ask for. Yet she continues to blast him but play nice when he plays by her rules. [/quote]

They are a "WE" because they are a family now and will be for life. These are called choices. THEY will likely have grand children someday too and child support is calc by the court by a % of wages. Apparently this is what it came too.  She is obviously a over sharer which seems to be the big problem. Perhaps someone could point that out to her in a nice way. Or is next time she blasts him nicely tell her how lucky she really is, many have it far worse.[/quote]

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