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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.

It is petty. I don't have much respect for this woman because she's using the child support to stay at home and bankroll her lifestyle while her kids are in school full time. It's frustrating that my brother is holding up his end of the bargain but it's never enough for her.

Here is the thing: my brother is not a responsible person in his personal life. He's been notoriously single and hasn't had positive relationships. She knew this going in but wanted him to change. I think she expected him to change once she got pregnant and he didn't, in fact it may have gotten worse. I suspect she had feelings for him and wanted more than a one night stand but he couldn't give that to her so she's resentful and takes it out on him by calling him a deadbeat.

That being said, I've been judgemental. I only know my brothers side of the story. My niece is pretty awesome and I may feel differently if I put in effort to developing a relationship with the mother of his child. [/quote]

Op I'm not sure you understand the meaning of one night stand. Do you seriously think she tracked her fertility then seduced him and got him to sleep with her once while she happened to be fertile? Not impossible but highly unlikely. I think your brother is not telling you the whole story.[/quote]

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