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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We went on 1 "date" that was never labelled as such. I've had coffee with students before and it's usually a mutual ego boost thing. No one makes a move, we just both enjoy the tension/idea. Nothing has ever happened. In this case, after the meet up happened, the former student started sending photos that were not asked for (not nudes, but suggestive) and I played along with some suggestive/humoring responses. Student is never again going to be a student of mine and I will be teaching at a totally diff school in another state. Just mortified at my lack of judgement. Big age diff 14 years. And never in a million years thought student would really think this could be a "thing" given student knows I'm moving far away.[/quote]

You do realize this is a terrible "game" you were playing all along? I know you thought it was mutual flirting, but I bet she's not the only one who thought it was a real date, or got excited about the possibilities. I wouldn't worry about this one girl. I would, however, start getting honest with myself about what a gross way this is to interact with women with whom you have a power and age differential.[/quote]

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