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[quote=Anonymous]I think some pps are being to hard on the mom that was raped and would not want to meet her child. No I'm not an adoptee, by my husband is. He was conceived during a rape something he did not know until he tracked down his bio mom. She was not happy to hear from him. Accused him of trying to ruin her life,basically lashed out at him. Now I am biased and think it's sad she doesn't want to know this amazing man that's part her and as wonderful and strong as she isbut I also realize how shocking and maybe traumatic hearing from him could have been.
My husband thought he could handle being rejected, but I don't think he realized it was really a possibility. Unfortunately his adoptive parents were abusive and he had built up a fantasy in his mind about his birth mom and what their relationship could be like.
Accepting that he essentially doesn't have parents has been hard for him, counseling has helped and so has becoming a father himself.

OP, I'd really prepare yourself for the real possibility she could want nothing to do with you, though I hope you have a happier outcome. Either way I think you should book a few sessions with a counselor who deals with this kind of thing.[/quote]

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