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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here. DH and I also have a rule in our house: I deal with all communication with my family, and he deals with all communication with his family. Your DH should maybe mention to his mom that the same way you don't expect him to communicate constantly with your parents, he doesn't expect you to constantly communicate with his family. It's so important for a balanced marriage, and just because you two had a baby doesn't mean you're suddenly obligated to constantly communicate with his mom. [/quote] But what if your DH thinks you're in the wrong in this situation? What if his mother interprets what he says as agreement with her and then starts looking for other areas in which her son disagrees with his wife? It might work well for you and your family, but I think this kind of rule has a lot of potential downside. Like a game of telephone, too much room for miscommunication.[/quote]
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