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At three months, I'd make a issue of it.

When I think back (waaaay back) to when I was dating, I remember sleeping over and all of the morning stuff that made me late for work. Working out showering and the different products they had, then breakfast. Sometimes it felt like more intimacy, sometimes it seemed really cold how we were like robots in the morning just trying to untangle and set out for the day. Going home first to get ready felt okay if I was dressed appropriately for daytime, but I still didn't like feeling grubby first thing in the morning.

Have you thought about any of this?

Even the man who became my DH didn't sleep over if he had work early the next day. He was passionate about work and made that clear. Obviously it wasn't a deal breaker. I was secure enough in myself that I let him decide when sleeping over made sense. It really is too early for you to make this an issue. He will see it as you asking for way more than an overnight and may start to think of you as clingy. Not a good thing.

Enjoy what you've got or move on, pull back or find someone new.
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All this. My last BF only slept over on weekends. Because that's what worked for us.[/quote]

...until it didn't anymore.

All this nonsense about logistics and getting ready for work is silly. He's just not that into you. When you are crazy about someone, you want to be with them. Period. And wanting to see what else is going on before committing to weekend plans underscores the fact that he's juggling multiple women and doesn't prioritize you.

Life isn't hard when you keep your eyes open. [/quote]

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