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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, when did your wife die? How old was your daughter?

I think it's important to consider that OP - even if he wants more kids in general, even if he wants more kids with this woman - may have a pretty hard time with any situation where it appears that he's replacing his deceased wife.

If I was dating OP, I'd be pretty sensitive to that, but I'd also be sensitive to my own needs, and if I had been in a relationship with someone for a year, I'd probably want to have a conversation about marriage and children sooner rather than later.[/quote]

Two and half years ago, my daughter was four.[/quote]

In that case, while I understand your girlfriend's desire to move the relationship along as well as her concerns about being unable to have another child, I think she needs to recognize that there's a huge likelihood that you and your daughter are nowhere NEAR ready for those steps. [/quote]

She knows we're still grieving.[/quote]

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