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[quote=Anonymous]^^ runner, not dinner. Thanks, autocorrect. Right thread for this.

What bothers me about these comments is the immature assumption that 1. overweight people cannot be attractive, 2. the dismissal of POC who do find such people attractive (which is also inherently racist, btw), 3. the assumption that overweight people are these lost slobs who don't give men erections.

These comments also make it sound like the men making these assumptions are these great catches, who are good in bed, kind, gorgeous, and so worthy of a woman that matches them. Here's the thing. A man who is comfortable in his own manhood and who is good in bed, can be attracted to and can please any woman he finds attractive and we don't just find one size attractive.

If you're with a woman who's gained weight and it's not medical, look at her, are you depressing the shit out of her? Are you a 3 minute sex guy? Are you withholding of affection and a judgmental d!ck? Guess what, you can go cheat like one of the pps threatened, but I guarantee you, these patterns repeat and you'll make any woman miserable. The fault lies within you. Does this absolve people who don't put an effort to into their appearance from it? NO, BUT, if someone is healthy (or unhealthy) and their comfortable body state is a size 14, that's their right. Just like if someone prefers being a size 00, that's their right. Many thin women I know are gym rats, which is not healthy, or on stimulants, also not healthy. Going out for a night of binge drinking, no food, and adderal in the morning doesn't make you in charge of your life. Yet so many people seem to ignore that for the possibility of screwing someone, and use that argument to say they won't be with someone overweight because they are not in charge of their life and they are unhealthy. Um, please.

I'm so tired of these posts, most likely written by men who are not fit and not competent and mostly not good in bed. I'm sorry. But no successful hot dude is on DCUM on a weight thread. He's out banging these hot women he judges so, or running, or reading or something. I personally am on DCUM as an escape mechanism. So take all these responses with a grain of salt. They're probably all written by one angry bitter poster who rather look outside of themselves than inside and realize the problem lies within.

BUT, yes, many people are superficial, first attraction is physical. BUT, it's not just about weight. It's about looks, air, etc. 
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