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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I got to same place although through a different path. He was at home doing nothing all day, kids at school and I was out working my $300k job (stressful but rarely more than 50 hours per week). Although he was busy driving around to activities from 4-6 much of the time he literally did nothing. The minute I would get home the kids would ask me "What's for dinner?". I did all homework, paid all bills, laundry-everything. And although we didn't "need" the money I hated him that he sat on his ass all day. Anyway, after 5 years of this he got a job, a good one and he loves it. He even does MORE at home than before. Sometimes people get in a rut and really have trouble getting out. He has to find something to make him feel worthy again. Try to help him find it. You cannot nag him into it--I am the queen of trying that! He has to find it in himself. [/quote]
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