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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you're paycheck to paycheck, not sure wh6 he'd be bitching about you getting outfits for your niece. I'd never let dh get away with that bs. I have 3 nephews and buy what I want for them. [/quote]

I love all the DCUM hags who come out of the wood work talking about what they won't let their husbands get away with... You're probably the same hags who are posting later about how their DH's are having affairs and want divorces.[/quote]

Not at all. I just don't see what the damn deal is. If he puts down itebs in checkout himself, whatever. Why get angry over something minuscule? [/quote]

Based on how the OP comes off, I bet there is a lot more to it than what she said.

First, she comes off as entitled and selfish. Her putting items at check out - as a husband - I would feel ambushed. She didn't even ask if it as okay, just EXPECTED that I would pay for it. He's probably pissed because this is just her general attitude and he is probably sick of it.

She also asks if he has the RIGHT to be pissed about something, which also indicates her mindset and who she is as a person. If it's not HER way, than something is wrong and the other person doesn't have the right to feel differently about something.

While, the OP has only brought up a couple of examples, I am willing to bet that the DH is just sick and tired of her entitled, selfish attitude and these examples are indicative of a bigger problem.[/quote]
If they have joint finances, he really doesn't have a reason to be mad about OP buying small gifts for her niece. It's all the [b]other[/b] issues OP mentioned - she spends TONS of time with her family, often without DH; she resents him for not being as interested in her niece as she is; she doesn't respect his right to have his own feelings and reactions towards her family, basically - that are the real problem. [/quote]

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