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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think the way you handle this is to disengage. If your husband wants to spend his entire weekend cleaning, shopping, cooking and catering to his mom, that is his choice. You can choose not to get involved. You should eat the same food you normally eat, and by all means, spend time with your baby! If your husband gets mad at you, that's a separate issue. Your MIL is never going to be helpful and she will always expect to be waited on. That is your DH's issue to deal with and by helping him you are enabling him. Your job during these visits is to be pleasant, that is all. [/quote]
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