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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My best friend is a widow at 45. I ask around... To men (and women).

Do you know any nice single guys. Requirement.. He is nice and has a job making at least $65K.

She does not need somebody to support her she has her own money. She has kids, so a nice guy to model good behavior, like being nice and having a job... Cook a meal, doesn't drink too much... Carries his plate to the sink.

Nothing... Nobody. 
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Without even thinking much I can think of one guy like that at my office, beyond myself, who would fit the bill (we make at least twice that).  But he is quite religious so you'd probably have to be in his religion.

My nice guy friends who have become single through divorce were snapped up quickly by Asian women, who saw their value.

Widows are a special problem.  They scare me because I don't know if I'll be as good a guy as their husband was.  The kids are a bigger issue--I am raising my kids already as a single dad.  Can I take on more children and do a good job?  If I didn't have kids I'd be much more likely to connect with a widow like that.

BTW many women don't like "nice guys" as boyfriends.  The most common rejection line I get is, "You're a really nice guy but.....".  Lots of divorced women were married to an asshole and that's what they are ultimately attracted to.

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