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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am male. I have often thought, if it wasn't for the sex part, being gay might not be bad. I would never have to watch old black and white movies again. I do the cooking, and earn the money (well 95% of it it). I share it...My wife takes care of the day-to-day appointments. Due to medical constraints, I can no longer to the heavy lifting (e.g., snow shoveling), but.... The problem is you are with guys that never lived on their own. I had to learn to cook, clean, do laundry because from age 20 to 31, I had sole responsibility for my life. You shack up at 23, there is no living on your own. Sure, you are not getting married young, but....[/quote] See how pathetic... Omg you have to watch a movie ... How do you manage? :roll: We are not in Kansas, nobody is shacking up at 23. You are exactly the guy I want to avoid. Your wife is not a partner, she is just sex you don't have to work for ...and by work I mean be nice, care, actually take pleasure in her interests. You gave turned your wife into a prostitute. You make money, she has sex... Besides sex you'd rather marry a guy.[/quote] Trust me, there is no sex :). At this point, after 20 years, some of our interests diverged...some have become stronger. I do not enjoy watching old movies every night. I do not see the point of watching something I have seen before. Last night, for example, I was watching the NCAA women's final 4 (UCONN vs Miss State; great game). My wife came in, grabbed the remote, and changed the channel to her show. She commented that I have no attachment to either team so why watch....Fine. I just streamed it on my iPad. At this point, after 20 years together, I have interest and she has interests. And, in some cases, they over lap. In other cases, things change. For example, until 5 years ago, we loved to take long walks on the beach. I had abdominal surgery that was successful (removed tumor), but left me in constant pain and I can not walk on sand pain free. You do not spend 20 years without compromise. Frankly, I think that is a word you do not know. If it is not 100% your way, then it is a bad fit.[/quote] You just don't get it. I am not going to educate you. Hopefully you were blessed with a daughter and will see it though the eyes of your daughter, it will sadden you and I don't wish Illwill to your child. But some people just can't understand unless they are personally affected.[/quote]
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