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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am male.  I have often thought, if it wasn't for the sex part, being gay might not be bad.  I would never have to watch old black and white movies again.

I do the cooking, and earn the money (well 95% of it it).  I share it...My wife takes care of the day-to-day appointments.

Due to medical constraints, I can no longer to the heavy lifting (e.g., snow shoveling), but....

The problem is you are with guys that never lived on their own.  I had to learn to cook, clean, do laundry because from age 20 to 31, I had sole responsibility for my life.

You shack up at 23, there is no living on your own.  Sure, you are not getting married young, but....[/quote]

See how pathetic... Omg you have to watch a movie ... How do you manage?  :roll:

We are not in Kansas, nobody is shacking up at 23.

You are exactly the guy I want to avoid. Your wife is not a partner, she is just sex you don't have to work for ...and by work I mean be nice, care, actually take pleasure in her interests. You gave turned your wife into a prostitute. You make money, she has sex... Besides sex you'd rather marry a guy.[/quote]

Trust me, there is no sex :).  At this point, after 20 years, some of our interests diverged...some have become stronger.  I do not enjoy watching old movies every night.  I do not see the point of watching something I have seen before.  Last night, for example, I was watching the NCAA women's final 4 (UCONN vs Miss State; great game).  My wife came in, grabbed the remote, and changed the channel to her show.  She commented that I have no attachment to either team so why watch....Fine.  I just streamed it on my iPad.

At this point, after 20 years together, I have interest and she has interests.   And, in some cases, they over lap.  In other cases, things change.   For example, until 5 years ago, we loved to take long walks on the beach.  I had abdominal surgery that was successful (removed tumor), but left me in constant pain and I can not walk on sand pain free.

You do not spend 20 years without compromise.  Frankly, I think that is a word you do not know.  If it is not 100% your way,  then it is a bad fit.[/quote]

You just don't get it. I am not going to educate you. Hopefully you were blessed with a daughter and will see it though the eyes of your daughter, it will sadden you and I don't wish Illwill to your child. But some people just can't understand unless they are personally affected.[/quote]

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