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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My best friend is a widow at 45. I ask around... To men (and women).

Do you know any nice single guys. Requirement.. He is nice and has a job making at least $65K.

She does not need somebody to support her she has her own money. She has kids, so a nice guy to model good behavior, like being nice and having a job... Cook a meal, doesn't drink too much... Carries his plate to the sink.

Nothing... Nobody.

Men sit and think... Nope.. Not one.

This is not just something women think.

Really, can you think of one person you would set up with your sister?One? That is the test. Do you want this guy banging your sister , raising your nephews/nieces and at your family holidays?

I bet you can't think of 1.

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I'm a 52 yo woman working in an IT Department with 600 employees.  I actually know a lot of guys that meet your requirements above.

I don't know what your experience is that has made you so bitter.  I didn't get married until I was 35.  I'd never met someone I wanted to marry before dating DH but I never had your attitude.  I just hadn't found the right fit for me.  That didn't mean all men were entitled or immature or whatever adjective you ascribe to them.  Individuals are a 'package' of traits and I hadn't found the right package yet.  And, like with any package, there are some things you don't really want but aren't deal breakers.

You need to realize the probem is you and not 50% of the population.  This attitude with stymie you not just personally but professionally.  Good luck.[/quote]

I am a 550 yo women who runs a 600 person iT department, funny.

I am not bitter... Martied at 30, 2 boys playing D1 sports in college getting Stem degrees on scholarship... Life is good. I am a foster mom to 1 more.

When I ask, do you know a man that would like to date a widow with 3 kids.. nobody wants to take that on, maybe when her kids are gone a dude will be willing to date her. She is like kryptonite to single older men.

An ad hominem argument does not make any point, what is you point. My friend can't find a decent man and I am bitter, um okay? Your not a programmer are you because your logic does not compute.[/quote]

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