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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't even with this thread. We have the OP over here throwing out unwanted touches and you all are concerned about the way her DH spoke to her after he asked her not to touch him and she refused? Amazing.[/quote] You, like, literally can't even? It's not amazing except to people who are used to dysfunctional relationships.[/quote] +1 I'm finding it hard to even fathom being in a relationship where touching my DH (or my DW if I was a guy) and having the person say that I had 'crossed a physical boundary in our relationship' and to 'remove my hand right this second.' Unless there was physical abuse in the past and you all have set up very strict boundaries for this reason this is off the chain. I can't imagine the rest of your relationship is loving and supportive if this is how a relatively harmless touching interaction goes. And other PP I think snapping in the moment is different. And it is unlikley to involve such intentionally cold and clinical language. It would be more of a 'ugh get off of me jeez' or something. Not this like, the way I would talk to a guy at a bar I thought was crossing the line or something.[/quote]
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