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Reply to "Should I stay in the marriage or should I divorce him?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe you could find a counselor who won't fixate on reviving your dead marriage, but will instead help you create a new working relationship so you can co-parent without animosity. Your husband sounds like one who copes by shutting down emotionally and avoiding everything, with no other good ways to deal with complexities or difficulties in relationships. You sound relatively reflective and aware, but stuck in your own form of passivity, where you shut down emotionally and think rather than feel. At the very least, a counselor could help each of you clarify what keeps you in this set-up, since you're both so miserable, and validate each side's feelings. Whether you ultimately stick together to get the child raised, or not, your child is affected negatively by the anger and resentment between you, and by seeing your interactions.[/quote]
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