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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Big pluses - can fix up a car, fun, polite, interesting, close with his family

Possible minus - living with his parents.  might be the sort who is looking for someone to take care of him.  might just be a sensible financial move for a recent grad to save money.  keep an eye out for basic self-sufficiency.[/quote]

I was reading another post where someone said that having a nice car was a sign of financial irresponsibility because cars are the worst investment possible.

You can't win!

OP - I really like PP's advice. You need to determine what this is really about instead of just thinking in basic, shallow ways.

Maybe OP is just financially responsible, which will certainly serve you well if you want to be in a relationship with him. Also, in this area, with the cost of living what it is, maybe it's smart for a recent grad to live with his parents and save 2k a month, which is typically what it costs to rent an apartment around here.

Just think instead of react. [/quote]

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