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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for all the feedback everyone, even the snark--it's what makes DCUM so entertaining!  I didn't claim to be an intellectual giant in my post, that's why I come to all of you  :? --but thanks anyway for the input on my IQ and poor writing skills ;)

For what it's worth, I work in human resources, live on my own and pay my own bills. I drive a very basic, inexpensive used car that I paid for myself. I actually drove the same model of car he drives now five years ago, so I am not a car snob. My issue with the car is that it did not bother him in the least that the car was excessively full of rotting, molding garbage when found it--as in it was treated like a garbage can.  I think it's just a difference in standards between the two of us....

The guy's mother picked up the phone when I called the other day.  [b]She gave me the impression that her son is lazy and that working (a normal, full time job) is not a priority for him. 
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I like the three date rule---thanks for that idea...

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Wonder if mommy is trying to scare you off. . . DH lived with his parents after college (and he is not a millennial).  He graduated with an engineering degree and a fairly high paying job after undergrad, but his parents wanted him close so convinced him to stay with them for whatever reason, and he only moved out after dating me for a few years and wanting to have his own independent life.  That didn't go over very well with the parents and his mother resents me to this day.  That might the only red flag - that his parents are overly involved in his life and have yet to cut the cord.  [/quote]

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