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[quote=Anonymous]My MIL apparently has no issues with my husband. According to him she feels sorry for his brother. The brother barely graduated high school, can't hold down a job and has serious anger issues. My husband thinks he may have a diagnosis of some sort of mental illness but his mother wouldn't ever disclose information like that. The sister is her first born and she says she will always be closest to her first born and more giving towards them. My husband got good grades, graduated from a great school and has always been able to gain and mai rain employment. I'm sure talking to my husband wasn't the best thing to do but he said it helped to know we were on the same page regarding her time spent with our child and our family. I don't talk bad about her to him (that's what girlfriends are for) but in the nicest way possible told him how sad I was about her not spending time with our family and how the comments she has made to me in the past have really hurt my feelings. I'm not going to trash the mans mother but expressed how I felt. People on the board think I'm this horrible money grubbing entitled complainer but I'm thankful for what we have. Anyone who says they wouldn't be offended if your MIL gave to everyone but you is not being honest at all. I don't buy it for a second. If your MIL talked down to you and insulted you the 2 -3 hours a year you saw her you'd feel the same. With that said I'm really ready to get over her. Venting here did help.[/quote]
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