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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/samantha-rodman-phd/why-wives-who-do-all-the-housework-dont-want-sex_b_8395378.html
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Lots of hoops to jump through. But, I'd probably jump those hoops routinely if they resulted in an active sex life. Maybe that advice works in some relationships, but I've never seen sexual frequency or enthusiasm correlate to my increased chore-load or my wife's increased downtime, at all.

So much of this is hormonal. (I see some correlation between her menstrual cycle and enthusiasm.) But women don't want to hear this -- probably related to having legitimate feelings dismissed as being because of "that time of the month." Much more pleasant to hear that it's the man's fault and he should devote his energies to improving her life. [/quote]

That choreplay shit doesn't work. "You're not doing enough housework!" is just a bullshit excuse.[/quote]

You're right.  Maybe it's not because of the chores.  Maybe it's because of your obnoxious personality.[/quote]

Most wives sexual desire doesn't die, their husbands kill it. There are millions of men who think that the lack of sex is not their fault. Early in the relationship, you knew how to get laid, now you don't do any of the stuff anymore I'll bet.[/quote]

I mostly just drank and studied. She would come by the bar where I was drinking, we'd have a few laughs, and then we'd go have sex. I'm happy to hang out in bars again if you think it would help. [/quote]

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