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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Of course the opposite is true when she walks in the door and I'm "meh" about it"

Maybe if you gave a date more than a cursory look before judging her to be "meh" or "hot" you would have more success in not coming across like a total jerk off. [/quote]

I completely disagree with this. I'm a very earnest guy who doesn't want to set himself on a course of trouble. I believe in monogamy and long term relationships. Not a player. But, smart enough to know that if you don't end up with someone who you are really instantly physically attracted to as a guy that's going to be trouble down the road (as I'm sure it is for many women). [/quote]

So why haven't your other long-term relationships worked out?

You seem to lack introspect and are very thin-skinned when someone challenges you. Should probably work on that before anything else.[/quote]

I'm not thin skinned, but I will push back if I disagree with an assertion. A racial fetish is different than having a set of preferences (note mine are not just physical but the combo of physical and accomplishments via education and ambition). This is like a basic ven diagram. It's simply that the overlap of what I like happens to overlap with a lot of Asian women. I've had great relationships with Brazillian women, Koreans, Chinese, Italian, Lebanese, etc. So I hardly profile as an Asian fetishist. I just am not attracted physically to blondes, more pale skin, and am attracted to hugely ambitious and successful, dark skinned petite women. How is that any different than women who are drawn to men with beards over 6' tall who are highly successful? Seems like a lot of women on DCUM have types.[/quote]

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