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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Or be happy with yourself and kids..hoping he slips on a banana peel.

That is the BEST! I love it!!![/quote]

Why would anyone want to live with this mentality? If you really hate the other person that much and don't think anything can be done to fix it, why stay? If it is because of the kids, they will eventually see through the fake happiness, the second thing that makes any sense is if you have put yourself into a financial pickle and have to rely on his money...otherwise, why in the world stay married to someone you wish would die? That is not healthy on any level and it is not good for your children, no matter how you might want to spin it as "we are providing a healthy home environment." I call BS on that!! Either forgive completely and move forward, or leave...don't harbor hate and resentment.   [/quote]

You can turn that around asking the same question to the cheater. Why cheat and mess up what you have for years? Compromise, get therapy or get divorced.  No one was talking about hatred in that post. Some on here are stuck because of finances and can't divorce right away. The wife can move on even if she is married or is waiting until the kids are older or grown. More women are learning hopefully that happiness doesn't revolve around 1 man.[/quote]

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