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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually go further than Miss Martin.  To me it is tacky to reveal the gender before the birth.  [/quote]
Why is it tacky?

I'm from a community where most people don't reveal the gender beforehand (religious custom), so friends and family generally don't ask, but it's the #1 question I'm asked by coworkers, checkout clerks, strangers, etc. (I'm in my 3rd tri and obviously pregnant.) And then I get confused/offended reactions when I say we're not sharing the gender in advance. [/quote]

Big difference between "don't know" and "won't share".  One is fine since you really can't, and the other just makes you sound smug and self satisfied.  People don't actually give a shit about your baby, they're just feigning interest anyway.  Surely you know that?[/quote]
Yikes, ok. Sorry I offended you by honestly answering a question? I would love it if total strangers didn't ask unsolicited questions about my pregnancy, but lots of people do and I try to always respond politely. Should I assume they don't actually give a shit and walk away without answering? Jeez. [/quote]

Yes. Why would you think the grocery store clerk actually cares about your baby?  Of course they are just making conversation.  Just say you don't know.  Or show your true colors and ignore them since you feel they are intrusive.  Have trouble with social cues, do you?

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You spend your time insulting strangers on the internet but I'm the one with a problem. Cool. Enjoy your life of pointless nastiness and judgment. I hope it brings you joy. [/quote]

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