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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He felt obliged to say yes. He has a crush on her cuter friend, a girl he runs a student club with. My opinion is the girl he has a crush on is NOT into him, otherwise she wouldn't have permitted her less attractive friend to ask him. Right or wrong?

Note: Girl he has a crush on did not take a date to the dance (many kids went without dates).[/quote]

NP and haven't read the replies.  But your story takes me back to my high school situation because it's so relevant here.  I liked a guy, Larlo.  The girl-ask-guy dance was coming up and my friend announced, "I'm going to ask Larlo!" So I felt like I couldn't ask Larlo because she announced it first.

Every day I waited for her to ask Larlo.  It was SO frustrating.  I did not have any experience with this, so it never occurred to me to say, "Ok, I'll give you until Wednesday, and if you haven't asked him by then, I'll ask him on Thursday."  I just waited and every day I asked her if she had asked him yet.  She knew I wanted to ask him.  She never asked him.  The last day, I said, "go ask him," and she said, "I can't, I'm too busy eating my sandwich!" and laughed.

Ok so I know that last paragraph isn't relevant, but just had to type it because it still irks me, lol, watching her laugh like that.  (It didn't end totally badly, though.  I actually took Larlo the next year.  AND learned a valuable lesson.)

My only point being your logic is faulty where you say, "she woudn't have permitted her....friend to ask him."  It doesn't work that way.[/quote]

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