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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She has been divorced for 4 years and her ex has shared custody. He is remarried with a new baby. 
He was a jerk, and gloated when he was the first to remarry. 
She struggled with the two boys when they were toddlers. Even though he had joint custody, he never saw the kids, and put his romantic life first. The boys are now 6 and 7. 
She met someone (great guy) who lives in a different state and has a business, so he can't move to be with her. Her ex said that he would enforce the agreement and make her stay in the state with his two sons. 
I really want the best for her since she has put up with so much, dating was hard with the kids plus she worked non stop. I am thinking she should stick it to the ex and tell him that she is giving up custody to leave the state and remarry. 
Two things could happen. The new wife of the ex will likely balk and refuse to have the boys full time. Then ex will come around. Other possibility, ex takes the kids, and she sees them 2-4 times a year., maybe summers. Either way, she can marry and move on. 
Has anyone seen this work? Is it a poor suggestion? [/quote]

You are either a troll or an idiot or more likely both![/quote]

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