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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are crazy. I am a single mom and I'd love to find love again. But if it impacted by kids's lives negatively by even 1%, I'd be like BUH-BYE. [b]Easiest decision ever.[/b][/quote]

Not even a thought!

There are other men out there, but nothing so precious as the two people I made. There's no way in the world this would cross my mind for a friend either, unless she was full-on abusive (to CPS levels) and the dad was a total supporter/protector of the children. Clicking this thread open, that's exactly what I thought the scenario would be. Instead, the children are portrayed as nothing more than an inconvenience to your friend's romance with a guy she's not even seeing seriously?

You are completely off your rocker. This isn't friendship a la "I just want my friend to be happy." This is insanity.

Yes, you tell your friend to either lawyer up and prep for a fight to move with her children or encourage her to start dating other men. She has plenty of documentation of his disregard for the children (no visitation/involvement) and the history of simple bitterness (smug about moving on first). It is in the children's best interest to stay with their mother (and away from their mother's "friend," OP). A judge will see that. A mean-spirited threat by an ex-husband isn't a court ruling.

Okay, you now MUST see how off track you are, right? Now, go help your friend find an affordable lawyer.
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