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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you're both working hard. I, personally, would not find that intermittent help helpful. I wouldn't know if I could count on him being home in time enough to help, so I'd already be planning to do it all. Are you sure that 1-3 days a week of him putting the shoes on the kid would fix your resentment? Or would you still be frustrated because you're feeling rushed and stressed in the morning and never know when he's going to be able to help or how much he'll be able to help? I'm with the others - wake up 15 minutes earlier to give yourself that extra time. I'm also fairly sure, given your description that he does help in other ways, that there are times when you're doing the equivalent of smoking a cigarette while he's handling childcare or household work. Neither of you sound lazy.[/quote]
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