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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was raised in another very traditional and conservative country.   I always shared a room with my brothers growing up.  We all had our own beds , closets and desks.  My parents moved around a lot because of my dad's job and we were not guaranteed lux accommodations every where we moved.  As my siblings left for college, there was more room and I eventually got my own room as a young teenager.

My parents and siblings did not act in a sexual manner in front of us ever that made us think that they need their privacy.  My parents were devoted to each other but we never saw closed bedroom doors.  I am sure that they were having sex and closing the bedroom door at night after we all were asleep.  Similarly, my siblings did not ever change in front of each other - we always changed in the bathroom and dressed there after we showered.  In retrospect, my brothers may have needed privacy but they must have found other places (bathroom?), because they had some basic decency and decorum.

When you have extra bedrooms you can certainly give a room to each child.  However, the reasons are not because there is a need for them to masturbate or be naked in the room.  That is messed up thinking.   And if you do not have seperate bedrooms then any person who is not having sex does not need privacy.  Children of different gender can share the room and it is perfectly ok.

Most Americans do not think there is any problem when same gender children share rooms.  Why is that ok?  [b]What if one of the same gender kids is gay?[/b] Is sharing then ok?

Incest is wrong whether it is two sisters or two brothers.  Sometimes opposite genders want privacy because they are going through different things when puberty hits.  If you have to share than you have to share but, you can also acknowledge that privacy is nice for opposite genders.

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