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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Update. I haven't seen him since Monday, the day of the argument. We have exchanged texts back and forth but for the most part we have not spoken. Last night I left to go to the hospital with my Mom to see my Dad who is dying of cancer. We drove together and came home around midnight. Today my bf and I talked about trust and explained what we didn't like about each other and what we would like to change. I never left my house once today which I later provided him proof by showing him a text exchange of me asking my son if I had left. 
The reason why is because he's claiming I went to his house last night and damaged his vehicle. Now he's saying he's getting the police involved. He lives in a pretty shady neighborhood with the police always patrolling that area. 
I feel like a fool for not just blocking him and not speaking to him like I had planned. 
I don't know what to do. I have removed him from everything. I told him I wanted him out of my life and to not contact me again.  But now I don't feel safe in my home. [/quote]

You don't owe him shit. You don't owe him proof of anything. Don't talk to him again, and maybe get some therapy to figure out why you think that sort of behavior from a guy is ok.

You should tell him to go ahead and call the cops. Explain the situation to the cops if they believe him enough to come talk to you. I don't see that as likely. You need to make it clear you're not afraid of his threats. He's only trying to upset you, and you're playing along. Don't contact him or respond to him again. If he shows up, call the police and get a restraining order. [/quote]

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