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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Break up. He followed you to a bar? You didn't tell him you were going because you knew he would be upset that you were seeing friends? He checks your phone? Run the hell away, OP.[/quote]

+1  I would add that you felt compelled to accede to his demand not to friend the guy.  That you friended him afterwards i don't see so much as a lie but as a pathetic attempt to assert some independence.  I've been married 20 years and our relationship has been rocky at times.  But, we never have the dynamic you have with this guy.

I also recently posted on a 'no good deed goes unpunished' thread.  A coworker confided that her husband was abusing her.  She texted me a safe word which alerted me to call the police.  They went to her home and arrested him.  Less than a week later, she's telling me what a horrible misunderstanding this all was.  I was subpoened twice and she no longer speaks to me.  One thing that struck me was your comment about how he found out about the friend request.  My coworker's husband is controlling.  The husband put a recording app on her phone to record all of her calls.  He controls her FB account.  He comes at lunch.....From what you've posted, i could see your BF doing that.

DTMF.  Relationships can be work but yours is just too hard.[/quote]

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