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[quote=Anonymous]My ex boyfriend was a workout and fitness junkie who had the body of a greek god. He was very judgmental towards people and specifically women who did not work out. He flat-out told me that he doesn't find unfit or fat women attractive. My husband is much more forgiving and he hardly notices slight fluctuations in weight. Since I am petite, when I gain weight it usually goes to my ass and boobs which he loves. He has told me he will love me however always. Regardless, I do feel a self inflicted pressure to look as "hot" as possible. For vanity reasons and also because I am a year older than my husband. At 29 I don't look much different than the 25 year old wives of his friends and colleagues. But as we get older I am insecure about looking the "old one" and him being surrounded by younger women. So I gotta keep up! [/quote]
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