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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell their parents they are not invited back due to the use of illegal drugs at your home.[/quote]

That is what I would do.[/quote]

Where do you live?  Not illegal in DC.[/quote]

NP here.  I don't EFFIN' care if it's illegal or legal.  In MY HOME, with MY KIDS in the house, NOBODY may use it.  Which the nephews full on should know, because they HID IT.  that is, if they thought it was ok to do, they would have lit up right in the living room.  So you don't need to feel that you had to "address in advance" that nobody should use drugs.  Illegal or not.

So now you address it.  previous posters have suggested better ways than I can (we've been thinking about it, didn't want to talk in front of others, but your children aren't allowed back if they are going to use any type of drugs while they are guests in my home.)  I'd be hard pressed to act civil.

Frankly, I think I would hvae taken the little brats (and even if they are 28 and 29 years old, they are acting like brats) outside and told them that what they did was unacceptable, so they should now try to fix it by going up to the bedroom they were staying in and stay there until they are straight.  And if that means they missed a meal, so be it.

God, people are crazy, talking about whather it's "legal or illegal" because you do not do not live in DC. Who cares?  This is YOUR HOME and you don't need to put up with kids being high in your home.  You don't need to put up with your sister and brother doing it, either, by the way, even though they are adults, etc.

Frankly, I'd also say "if your sons can't promise to stay clean during their entire stay at our home, then they aren't welcome."  and, yes, expect push back but who cares?  [/quote]

+1000[/quote]

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