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[quote=Anonymous]Op ~ move towards having a peer relationship with them. It's hard when they are still financially dependent but it helps if you establish an amount of financial help, establish the length of time, make it predictable, and then forget that issue. Aside from that - relationship issues should be moving towards being equal between you. Sounds like you are giving too much. And, also, that gives you expectations of emotional fulfillment. For example, for Christmas they probably gave you 1 gift. You should have given them 1 gift. Move towards establishing an equal relationship. Call out any rude behavior. You would not accept that from a peer. In addition, don't demand more attention or have greater emotional needs then is ordinary with a peer. [/quote]
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