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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry folks are being so awful on this thread, OP. I think you should take the girls, but I understand why you have reservations/resentment about it. You had a plan, and now you have to grieve that lost future for a bit before embracing your new reality. I get that. But...I think you know what you have to do. I'd definitely talk to a lawyer or join that FB group that a PP linked so that you can get your guardianship ducks in a row. You may be able to get custody of the kids in a kinship care sort of situation, and get help from the state in raising them if they are technically wards of the state but in kinship care with you. [/quote] Thank you! Finances were definitely another concern and I did consider receiving state assistance. Not sure how that would work given that their residents in one state and I live in another. Financially we'll do okay, but I know that kids are expensive! Fortunately, I also believe my family would step up to help out. They already do so for the girls. And I'm not on FB but I will check online to see if there are any other support groups. I'm sure there must be.[/quote]
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