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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP if you've been going out with her for 3 years and in mid-20s she's been long since ready for you to make the next move which is at least getting engaged.  You didn't do that so she's very unhappy with you.  She's now looking for a rationale to dump you other than that "He wouldn't ask me to marry him!" because that would hurt her ego too much.  So she's looking for excuses to dump you in your behavior, in reinforcing that you're not marriage material from her friends' criticisms (which is why she even told you about it).

Do you want a future with her or not?  If so, you need to have a very serious talk about what "the future" means.  I guarantee it isn't another year or two or three of a relationship that's all about partying and doing shots.

What all her friends and she is implying is, "Would a man who is serious about settling down, getting married, and having children be acting like the life of the party clown?"  No he would not.  [/quote]

We've talked about it a few times and she's said she'd like to date at least as long as her parents did before getting married (5 years). Not sure how you reach the conclusion of "she's been long since ready for you to make the next move which is at least getting engaged".[/quote]

Because you mentioned talking about getting engaged in your first post?

OP, forget this one.  Thrown her back and don't waste any more time in this relationship.  No woman who is seriously interested in a man for marriage wants to needlessly wait FIVE YEARS before deciding whether he's a keeper or not.  And FIVE is the minimum...she wants to wait AT LEAST 5 years??? Because her parents did??? That's lame.

She's just keeping you around until someone better comes along.  You're a place holder, she's already coming up with stupid shit to be dissatisfied with you about, so she can justify it to herself when she cheats on you or just dumps you.  Odds are her male friend who was bad mouthing you seriously wants into her pants too, if he hasn't already gotten there.[/quote]

x2 Convert her into a FWB while you look for your next GF.[/quote]

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