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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, is the house messy? I think that part of staying home with the kids mean that you should also clean too. What are you doing during naps? Incorporate your daughter in cleaning up.[/quote]

[b]Yeah, OP has to spend every single hour working[/b]. Like DH probably does when he travels or takes a lunch break.. No breaks for Op. And she probably has night duties too. Ha![/quote]

If it takes you that long to clean and cook you're doing it wrong.  You should look into that. [/quote]

Since it is apparently so easy for you and OP's DH to clean and cook, how about he does it on the weekends or when he gets back from travel? [/quote]

Some people (like this PP) get so hot and bothered by why they think is an attack on SAHM's, that they lose sight of reality. No-one even insinuated that OP needs to spend every single hour working. You're arguing about a figment of your own imagination. It's perfectly reasonable that OP should spend SOME time dedicated to cleaning and cooking. [/quote]

There is nothing in OP's post that suggest she doesn't spend some time cleaning and cooking. So why are we even discussion this?[/quote]

Idk, you suggested that we are saying OP should spend every single hour of the day working (not true). I said it doesn't take every single hour to clean and cook, more like ONE hour. You just want to argue nothing I guess.[/quote]

You suggested that OP was not cleaning or not cleaning enough. You did this by asking what she was doing during naps. I assumed you thought she should use naps to do more cleaning, since apparently she was not doing enough based on your understanding of her post.

So I suggested, in a "hot and bothered" tone, that she had the right to relax during her naps because her DH probably had some pretty relaxing breaks too at work, in the car, on the train and when he travelled.

You are the one who made assumptions first. I just responded based on the assumptions you made.[/quote]

That was actually a different poster, I'm the one that said "if it takes you that long you're doing it wrong".  The only assumptions I have made is that it doesn't take very long to clean a house or cook.[/quote]

So you responded to my response to someone elses post.  I was attacking that person's assumptions with my comments. You took my comments out of context.  :lol: [/quote]

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