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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be angry all you want. There has to be a reason he asked you what you do all day.  Your "I'd rather focus on my child instead" of gasp, housework, says a lot.

SAHP means more than playtime with the kids. It means you trade one job for another. You sound like my sister. She screams abuse because her husband wanted home cooked food, clean clothes and a neat, not spotless, neat tidy home. She thought housekeeping was beneath her. Her ex fixed that.[/quote]

This is so bizzaire a stay-at-home parent who doesn't want to do any housekeeping work,  then what exactly is she doing at home? I was raised by a single full time working  mom of 4 and the house was  always clean and we had home cooked meals. [/quote]

I am sorry I don't understand this either. My mom was a sahm all her days and the house was clean, really clean. We weren't allowed to have toys and crap in the living room. Only our room. You want to play go to your room and play with your toys. If you bring a toy downstairs, take it back up to your room or it gets thrown out. Teaches the kids responsibility after they see some of there stuff tossed. Mom did laundry, made meals and this was back in the days of no microwaves. My mother had 4 kids and we played in the yard or with other kids in the neighborhood. None of this driving all over dodge to entertain us. Here is a box, entertain yourself. My dad was military so shit had to be right. My mom didn't have a lot of the conveniences that SAHM have now. How did she do it and they can't now?[/quote]

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