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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long have you been broken up? Do you think he's accomodating your outbursts because he feels guilty? Don't mistake pity for caring.  You may get a bit of a charge out of thinking he cares but ultimately it's useless- he's never going to be able to do anything to make you feel well and truly better. Only you can provide that for yourself. Talking to a therapist to get a different perspective is a great idea, good luck![/quote]

Yea I think he could be because he feels guilty; he apologizes over and over. He does say he feels bad and that he did everything wrong, etc but its not going to change the situation. Sometimes I feel like its just to calm me down and get me to stop, other times I feel its because he does care? I don't know. It all just hurts. Thank you PP. Everyone suggests a therapist so I guess I really need to.[/quote]

This is known as the "reconciliation" stage of abuse.  It's a very common pattern where the abuser says and does nice things.  google "cycle of abuse and see if you recognize yourself and your partner in the abusive dance.  also, visit loveisrespect.org and read up.[/quote]

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