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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I might be in the minority.

No one is perfect. There is no such thing as a "perfect person" for everyone. Some people get lucky and find them others do not. Marriage is hard work.

If you want a family, marrying him is not a bad idea.

Why wait for a Prince who may never come?[/quote]

No one is perfect. But there is someone out there that is perfect for you. DH isn't perfect. He can be cranky and anxious. And I'm far from being a perfect wife (I hate cleaning and cook dinner only 50% of the time. I'm also messy and ADD). But we adore each other. We are so perfect for each other. There are more choices than "waiting for my Prince " and "he's good enough, he'll do, I guess".

OP- I didn't meet DH until I was 38. Got married at 40. Not going to lie, having a child was a long difficult struggle. After 5 years and DE, we finally have the most perfect kid. But I'd do it over in a heartbeat to have DH by my side. All my friends that married in their 30's, panic married (even if they didn't realize it) and now are either in soul sucking miserable marriages (and their kids are paying the price for it) Or are divorced after horrible and expensive custody battles. There daily lives suck so much. It takes every ounce of energy to just get from one moment to the next. Meanwhile, I waited for the right guy to come along. I didn't wait for perfection. He has many flaws. But none of them impact the ability of our marriage to be a good one. (With a controlling person, your marriage will never be good).

Don't be a slave to a timeline. Don't think marriage is magically going to make things better. Being lonely and single is way way better than married and miserable! [/quote]

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