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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting thread.  Pre-marriage, I would have said I would never tolerate infidelity.  Ten years into marriage, I can see myself staying in a marriage if my husband cheated and was remorseful (but don't tell him that)!  The reasons: he is an awesome husband and an awesome dad.  Granted. cheating would make him a decidedly less awesome husband, but after 10 years of wonderful marriage and 7 years of wonderful co-parenting, I am not sure I could throw all of that away so easily.  Is that crazy?  FWIW, I don't think my husband has, would, or will cheat, but I'm sure everyone says that.  [/quote]

I feel the same about my wife.  She is awesome in many ways, and we co-parent and have fun and sometimes have great sex together.  If she cheated, I would work past it.

Divorce seems like such a massive headache.  Who needs that.

It's like the "who would you choose" thread:  The parent of your child who you have fun with and share life experiences and sex and love but who wasn't faithful, or the new person who has kids of her own and you don't see yours half the time and the kids are in therapy but at least the new girlfriend seems to be faithful, so far.[/quote]

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