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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When we had an au pair a few years ago, I joined a very active au pair FB group. It was a place where both au pairs and host parents could ask questions, get support, etc. When posts got heated, a minority of au pairs would clap back by telling host moms that how they could "take" the husbands in a heartbeat. Also, some au pairs truly were VERY resentful of doing any childcare. It was often Brazilian au pairs. And I hate to generalize like that, because it could just be that there are more Brazilian APs in the country / active on social media. But I say this because I think these are probably the messages that JM was getting from her au pair community. All this to say, I think JM was in a very unhealthy mindset. She's a reasonably attractive 23 year old. There's absolutely no reason she should've been ride or die for THIS guy. In his 30s (40s?), has a kid, not rich, kind of gross looking, sallow skin, pudgy body, etc. She absolutely could've bagged an early twenties dude like the rest of them do for their green card. I think the au pair grew to hate CB - maybe resentment having to take care of the kid? - and hooking up with BB was a way she got back at CB. And then the au pair just indulged her dark fantasies and they got darker and darker and the next thing she knows she's killing an innocent man and helping stab CB - all while a young child waits patiently downstairs. She's a psychopath for sure, but I think it stems more for hate for CB rather than love for BB. [/quote] Doesn’t much matter either way. Brendan obviously hated his wife enough to brutally murder her with their daughter in the home. The nanny was a great help to him regardless of her motive. [/quote]
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