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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear DD,
Have sex only with your DH after marriage. It is BS that you need practice for something as simple as sex. The world over in many cultures the norm is not to be promiscuous.

There are enough books and videos available to attain sex education. It is not calculus or quantum physics that you will not be able to catch on.

The culture that advocates multiple sex partners before marriage is also one that has a 50% divorce rate. And many kids are married to unmarried women. So I do not see what value pre-marital sex with multiple partners give to a woman.
-mom[/quote]

Sadly, sex is not simple and you need time to unpack all the idiocy you picked up in a sex negative culture. It is far better to resolve these issues before you get married. If you get married for life, you want it to be to someone who knows they love loving you and knows why. I am saddened by people who think you can disparage sex your whole life and suddenly be uninhibited.[/quote]

Hahahaha

I'm an NP but I'm just loling over the ignorance in this post. News flash: choosing to be abstinent until marriage is NOT a sex negative decision. I'm sorry you think anyone who has a number lower than one is a sadly repressed prude, but the truth is that you're wrong.

I didn't touch a man until I married my DH at 24. I was always a confident, emotionally healthy, and sexually curious virgin. I watched porn, read about sex, and was extremely educated by the time my fun and awesome wedding night came around. DH had been with other women before, but he was turned on and amazed by me because I knew [i]exactly what I wanted[/i] and even iinstructed him on how to get me off when he went down on me.

I'm uninhibited, fun, sexually VERY confident, and know I'm probably the best lay DH has ever had. Oh, and he's the only man I've ever wanted.

So you can take your virgin-shaming bullshit and shove it up your ass. I'm sick of it. I really think it's the sexually active people in the world who have NO CLUE about how sexuality actually works.[/quote]
What would you have done if he told you he doesn't like giving oral?[/quote]

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