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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A breastfed toddler would have been fine with dad while mom took the older kid to get medical attention. I say this as someone whose toddler has failure to thrive and night nursed until 2 and 1/2. [/quote]

And why couldn’t dad just have … taken the older kid and let mom stay with the toddler? Did he need to die on that hill? if so, why? Did he need to start a pissing match about it?

That’s what people focusing on the breast feeding are missing. The DH would have found a reason to act out no matter what the issue - he gets triggered at anything going wrong. [/quote]

I’m not going to let my kid with a head injury die on the hill that she has two parents and the dad can take her while I nurse my toddler to sleep.[/quote]

The child who needs medical attention is the priority, not a nursing toddler.  Nursing a toddler, outside of true medical needs, is more for the mom and her unwilling to ween than it is for the child.  The child would be fine not nursing.  Both parents fail as parents.[/quote]

OP knew DH's tantrum was for her benefit and would end as soon as he left the house. He was angry he was being made to parent.[/quote]
That is a sick dynamic. They are both a$$holes.[/quote]

Unlike you...[/quote]

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