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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So one guy  insults family and fair game is to humiliate the other family?

Who raised you people?[/quote]

People who don't humiliate other people's kids ...to ad insult, in a very public manner!    [/quote]

And frankly, when you go that low to publicly humiliating someone's kid, all bets are off.[/quote]

Publicly humiliating the child of the person who knows that you had an affair no less. Dave is clearly a horrible idiot and it is difficult for me to muster sympathy for him. [/quote]

Do you recognize that Dave also has a wife and kids? What about them?[/quote]

I don't think its on OP or her DH to have to swallow Dave's horrific treatment of them and I don't think they owe the daughter and wife going out of their way to deny themselves an honest response.

I think the DH was over the line. I also think he was probably seeing red after Dave said something seemingly DESIGNED to make him see red. And IMO this is a lot of justification to get around to trying to protect Dave from the consequences of his actions. [/quote]

Horrific treatment? You exaggerate a bit much.[/quote]

I mean there have CLEARLY been other incidents! OP's wife has long suspected him of BPD! This is obviously not the first offense.

And I guess you think differently about your kids than I do because if someone called my teenage daughter fat in any way shape or form, let alone in a way clearly designed to mock her in a celebratory moment on my public Facebook page I would lose my ever loving sh*t. I would delete the person's post, unfriend them and excoriate them on text and not blow up their life because I wouldn't want that on MY page but I would lose my mind. And talk an incredible amount of crap about them to everyone who would listen. That is absolutely a horrific thing to do. [/quote]

And all of that is fine. That would have been the correct way to handle. DH did not do this.[/quote]

People can go a bit temporarily insane when kids are involved. And what you aren't acknowledging is that Dave poked this bear KNOWING the bear knew all this. KNOWING that this bear could in fact blow up his life. If someone in my life knew I had some life altering affair I would be VERY nice to them. [/quote]

But Dave is mentally not all there. Dave’s wife and OP’s daughter are the two victims here.

Notice that it’s always women who suffer. Men go after other men’s wives and daughters, unthinkingly, like they’re objects and property.

Both men are total scum here.

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